First Thing To Buy When Planning For A Malay Wedding

What is the first thing you should buy when planning for a Malay wedding? Should you purchase and make booking for the venue first? Or should you book a caterer? Or wait maybe should it be bridal wear first?

Memang susah nak tahu mana nak bayar dulu tetapi pada saya ada satu benda ini yang ramai orang tak pilih dulu. Ini pada saya perkara yang paling penting anda harus INVEST dalam perkahwinan anda. Dan ia adalah Kursus Rumah Tangga!

The best ever investment you can do for yourself and your partner is to invest in your relationship. Ramai yang ada mentality yang kursus ini tidak penting. Ada yang kata kursus ini waste time ajer. My question to you is memang kursus ini tak penting tetapi adakah ia penting untuk anda belanja beribu-ribu dollar untuk majlis anda?

Yes go ahead and enjoy your wedding if you can afford it but most importantly prepare for your marriage. This have to be your upmost priority when planning to start your own family. We have many couples who attended our kursus who initially have the mindset that it is going to be boring and they will learn nothing but after the kursus they were glad they attended and they went out of the room knowing their partner even better and now are better prepared to face the challenges ahead together.

Salah satu punca penceraian adalah “infidelity” atau “ada orang ketiga“. Ini adalah punca pertama penceraian diantara Muslim marriages.

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Ini adalah sesuatu yang tidak boleh diambil ringan. Ia mungkin anda kata sekarang yang perkara ini tidak akan terjadi pada saya tetapi ramai yang sekarang bercerai pun dulu ingat yang ia tidak akan jadi pada mereka. No one gets into marriage wanting to get divorce!

For Art of Marriage we have our new and improved Kursus Express 1.0 where we share with couples signs to look out for in infidelity and also preventive measures to avoid adding to the numbers. This is one of the many topics we share in our course.

Why you should also attend a kursus first is because kita akan share how you can learn to budget and plan your finances. This is very helpful especially if you are already planning to buy a house. Money that is needed to sustain you and your family. Siapa bayar apa dan sebagainya.

Dan banyak lagi akan dikongsi so that you can be better prepared in your marriage. Ramai orang fikirkan mereka sudah tahu semuanya dan tak perlu pergi ke kursus. Ini adalah pemikiran yang sangat behaya. Kursus ini seperti license. Nak bawak kereta perlu ada license kan? Jadi sama seperti perkahwinan anda. Anda juga boleh lihat video dibawah ini mengenai pentingnya ke Kursus Rumah Tangga.

 

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About the Author

Johari is the Co-Founder of Art of Marriage. He is also a certified Trainer by Ministry of Social & Family Development (MSF) to conduct the pre-marriage course for Muslim couples. He has a background in coaching, counselling and is a licensed Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) Practitioner from the Institute of NLP.

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